Some people come into life to name that tune in one note, others come in to name that tune in ten notes. Human beings are not standardized, our journeys are not standardized, so we cannot standardize the lives that we live. Success in life is not measured by how many steps it took to get there, but that we ultimately got there. This is equally valid in our relationships. Sometimes it takes more than one relationship to find out who we are, what we need, and what we have to give. Sometimes what we find out about ourselves in one relationship leads us to another.