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The Power Of Being

By Denise Gibel Molini - Life transformed - We All Have The Power To Control Our Lives

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WORRYING

It is not as though constantly hitting the ground in our minds means that when it actually happens it doesn’t hurt. It only hurts again

When we worry we focus our attention on experiencing the worst that can happen over and over again. All of this rehearsal time spent experiencing the bad things does not in any way diminish the effect that these things have on us when and if they finally happen.

The most outstanding thing about this is that as often as not the bad things, the things we spend all of our time worrying about just never happen. I have a friend who every time he meets someone new, and sets up a date with that person, he starts playing the whole thing out. He builds each small piece of information that he may have about the person into a long story and compares it with his story and puts the two together and either it takes the entire relationship to the point where one of them has to end it. This is done before he even spends 10 minutes with the other person. Sometimes the date is canceled. Sometimes everything goes great, but never, does his scenario play out. If the date is a week away from the time that they meet, this is a week that my friend goes through the most torturous hell imaginable.

The fact that he suffered for a week is the best case scenario. The worst case scenario is that he leads the relationship through all of his preconceived disasters. When we worry, we accomplish nothing. Worrying does not have any effect what so ever upon the outcome of a situation, nor does it effect our ability to handle the outcome. It is not as though we having hit the ground so many times in our minds that when we finally do it won’t hurt. It only hurts again.

Once the ball leaves our hands anything can happen. Careful aim can narrow the margin of error, but the fact remains that anything can happen. When we feel ourselves entering into a state of worry, we must ask ourselves what we can do to make a difference or help guarantee the outcome that we want. If there is something that we can do, we should do it. If there is nothing that we can do, let it go and move on. What will be will be. And what will be is what is meant to be. Our part is throwing the ball and Gods part is hitting the right mark. Every time that we set a goal it is not necessarily to reach an end, it is to reach the next point in our journey. Even if we get to the exact point that we planned, there is no guarantee that it will be in any way where we want to stay.

The fact is that everything always works out for everyone in the end, if it didn’t we wouldn’t be able to move on. Sometimes everything falls apart at the same time, what a wonderful thing to be able to work them all out at the same time and get it over with. It is time to start eliminating from our lives some of the things that we do to ourselves. There are seasons in our lives there is a time to build and a time to break down.

Things are moving so fast that we really need to remove all of the distractions that we possibly can. It is time to be in a permanent state of awareness. It is as though God is throwing the ball to us and saying, “Heads up” twenty-four hours a day. We are sent enough curve balls from life not to have to imagine them. This is an important time in our history. Let’s live it as it is and really try to be where we are. There is really no time to worry. And if we do not worry, we won’t have anything to worry about.

Let us stop doing things to ourselves and start doing things for ourselves. Let us begin to live our lives as they are not as they could or should be. For every moment that we spend thinking about how something should be, we just missed living it as it is. If we do not worry, we do not have room for fear to grow. If we do not fear we do not have food for worry.

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We Are At The Beginning of a New Age and With It A New Reality

We have to reframe the experience that we are undergoing now if we are to thrive within it – and yes, we can. It is not easy to tell a drug addict or an alcoholic that his quality of life would be so much better if he did without that next fix, or that next drink – but we know that it would. Imagine a place, some island isolated from the rest of the world, where drugs and alcohol were free so long as they were only indulged in on that island. In this way, the addicts would not be a danger to the rest of the world. Eventually, those who came to the island to get high – would stay high and stay on the island. Yes, many with loved ones would miss them, and suffer some guilt in neglecting them, but the powerful intoxication of the drug could mask the pain and guilt of missing and neglecting loved ones. However, once addicted, nothing and no one could overpower the need for the drug. celebrity_home_jlo_pcn louboutin_shoes_mode_large_qualite_uk One of the many gifts that we receive from the Divine Presence that some call God, is the awareness of our own demons, intensified and mirrored back at us through small pockets of the population. We have become addicted to all things material with the focus and obsession of a drug addict. Our egoic attachment to more, and more of the things of the world has become so strong that our soul’s attachment to things of the heart has been increasingly ignored. We make time for loved ones when we can, justifying all of our neglect and all of the love that we miss, just as any addict does. Just like drugs, most of the things that we can’t do without today, we never needed before we had them, and what they do to us, is make us want more. We want more and better quality drugs to feed our addition to the world. There is a force called gravity which keeps us on the earth. There is a force called addiction, which is equally strong, that keeps us chained to the things that we think we possess, but that really possess us. We are like the two people in the Tarot Devil Card, they are chained and shackled to the devil, but if you look closely, the shackles are large enough to remove – if the people really wanted to be free from the devil. The fact is – they don’t. We see the street gangs, they kill people with no remorse just to gain power within the gang. What scares us the most is that they kill without feeling, without it being personal. We condemn drug lords, and drug dealers for their Indifference to human life. There is an offense called, “Depraved Indifference”:

To constitute depraved indifference, the defendant’s conduct must be ’so wanton, so deficient in a moral sense of concern, so lacking in regard for the life or lives of others, and so blameworthy as to warrant the same criminal liability as that which the law imposes upon a person who intentionally causes a crime. Depraved indifference focuses on the risk created by the defendant’s conduct, not the injuries actually resulting.
“to bring defendant’s conduct within the murder statute, the People were required to establish also that defendant’s act was imminently dangerous and presented a very high risk of death to others and that it was committed under circumstances which evidenced a wanton indifference to human life or a depravity of mind. . . . . The crime differs from intentional murder in that it results not from a specific, conscious intent to cause death, but from an indifference to or disregard of the risks attending defendant’s conduct.” 60 NY2d at 274.
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What we don’t consider is that all indifference to human life is depraved. Drug company executives who rush a drug to market for the money – holding back information on the possibility of fatal complications exhibit depraved indifference when their concern is, not the value of the lives that could be lost, but the financial cost of the law suits that could ensue, versus having to continue research that would delay the release and the profits or worse, prevent it at all. When the executives of chemical companies and power plants choose saving the expense of safely eliminating toxic waste over saving the lives that illegally dumping will cost, is depraved indifference. HMO’s who withhold life saving treatment in order to maintain a healthy profit show depraved indifference. So long as enough palms are greased, enough people profit, we have become comfortable legalizing mass murder, sometimes called, “Collateral damage”, other times called, “Acceptable Losses”. We ignore the Divine mirrors. There is an Hasidic story that I will paraphrase.  A man has a small shop in his village, and he is very generous and giving to the poor and the needy.  He never turns anyone away because of lack of money.  He is, although not wealthy, the most admired man in the village.  One day he comes into a great deal of money and he changes, so afraid of losing his wealth he has the poor and the needy turned away.  No one invites him to their homes anymore and he becomes an outcast in the village where he was once loved.  He went to the Rabbi and asked for an answer to why he is being so badly treated.  The Rabbi takes him to the wondow and tells him to look into that glass and tell him what he sees. “The man answers that he sees many hungry, needy people looking for help.”  Then the Rabbi takes him to the mirror and again askes him what does he see, and he replies, “I see myself”.  “And what is the difference between the two sheets of glass?”, asked the Rabbi, and the man answered, “there is silver behind the mirror”.  The Rabbi said, “You see, when you see through your soul you see other people and their needs and cares, but when you see through silver, you only see yourself” Anyone who tells you that things will get better is dreaming, dillusional or lying. Things will not get better, we must get better. Have you considered how well the Amish have survived without our necessities? For all who believe in Satan, here is the newsflash, Satan has been called home by his Father and guess what? He’s taking all of his toys with him. You see, in the Old Testament, Satan basically told God that this creation of His, man, was not worth the love that God bestowed on them because, they could be turned away from God, Satan believed that they could never love God as the angels do, and so they just are not deserving of God. So, God basically told Satan to do anything that he wanted to tempt or turn mankind from God – except kill him. And so Satan has tempted us with money and power, divided us with religion, preoccupied us with prejudice, hatred, envy, jealousy, and fear. And here is how the story really ends – not in fire and brimstone, but in Divine love and forgiveness. Because Satan tempted the prodigal son (mankind) to take his inheritance, leave home and party. And now that Satan is taking all of his toys back, we will have nothing left, and, like the prodigal son, we will have to slave and work for nothing – until we realize that Love is the only thing that never goes away, never runs out and grows like the mustard seed when planted. Then, again like the prodigal son, we will love the God in ourselves and our brothers, we will share with each other, we will feed each other at one table, as one family in Divine Love. THE END

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The Sale of America, Piece by Piece

There was a time when this was a nation – not of states, but of tribes. The nation had a rich history that was known well by its proud Natives. I don’t even know what the nation was called because immigrants, some armed with guns, some armed with liquor, some armed with guns, destroyed the nation. They weakened the natives, robbed them of their food supplies, their livelihood and finally their homes.

The invading immigrants built a new nation, not out of tribes but out of states. Generations found the old nation vanishing along with its inhabitants. The remaining descendents of that nation and its tribes were relegated to small pockets across the land called reservations.

The new Nation, called the United States of America, then built itself into a powerful nation, inhabited by its own generations of proud natives. Until one day, immigrants, armed some with drugs and some with investment capital came along and weakened the natives, robbed them of their food supplies, their livelihood and finally their homes. Generations are finding this nation vanishing along with its once proud inhabitants. The new Nation, called the United Investment Holdings of the World, will build itself into a powerful fund for wealthy corporations around the globe. Its inhabitants, loyalists only to their home nations will also remain proud – but will never be natives.

If you think that it couldn’t happen to us – so did the original Native Americans. Perhaps it is the revenge of the Great Spirit, or the result of greed – or maybe just a cycle returning to its beginning point. Whatever it is, this country is losing itself. My father came to this country in 1918, like thousands of other immigrants, to leave behind old roots, old nationalities and become a part of the American Dream. He and countless others came here to plant the seeds of their dreams in new soil and to build a life as an American from the land that was America. They came here to melt into the melting pot – leave their old identities behind – to speak American, to dream American and to become American. They came, not only to pledge allegiance to the flag, but to pledge allegiance to fulfilling the promise of Democracy and of the Constitution of the United States. They came to be a part of that becoming.

Americans lost sight of their nation and its meaning, they lost sight of history. They saw only the gold. To Americans, the land did not represent its original principals, its original spirit, it represented booms, and rushes. There were gold rushes, silver rushes, oil rushes, and real estate booms. Immigrants began to come from other countries, not to become Americans, but only to off of America while remaining true to their homelands. Some, found that they could remain in their own countries and export their drugs to America – living better than most Americans, off of the weakness of Americans. They began killing Americans with their drugs, while buying American and Americans with their money – all the while never even crossing the border. Their effect on this nation is no different than the effect of the immigrants who came with small pox to give to the Native Americans. Others, have come armed with capital to invest, robbing the people of their incomes, their ability to feed themselves – while keeping all of the profits safe within their own native lands.

Perhaps this is what happens when you build a dream instead of a nation. When you build on what it has to sell rather than the people who make it a nation. I once thought that what was great about this country was that it was the only country founded on dreams and ideals. I realize that what made this country beautiful – the dreams – the ideals – were never planted into the soil of the nation which is its people. The funny thing is, that we miss this country, we know that it is slipping through our fingers, but we still don’t get why. We still don’t see, that like the American Indians, back when they were Indians and not Native Americans, our identity as a nation is intrinsically connected with the land that our nation inhabits. Our identity as a nation is intrinsically connected with the businesses that it builds and the people – the Americans – that they feed.

Again, it could just be karma. The nation was built on stolen land, perhaps that destines it to having the land stolen from it. Karma is only balance. The nation has a karma – not in deed – but in intention. Balancing karma does not require the impossible; it does not require undoing what cannot be undone. We can balance karma by realizing the error of what we have done and making a commitment never to do it again. Instead, what we did was commit to becoming a nation united in strength and action rather than tribes, divided and weak. And, as a nation united, we will not do what we did to obtain our land. However, rather than dividing into tribes, we have divided into mega-corporations, competing with each other for profits, just as the tribes competed with each other for land. The corporations have enough autonomous power to have aided in the weakening of the nation – no longer united as one people, but divided by the competing interests of different corporations. A corporation has not heart, no home, no loyalty other than to itself. Its home is where its profits are. Capitalism has reached the point where corporations not only control the goods and services of the nation, but they control the flow of information. Whosoever controls the flow of information controls the nation.

“Freedom of the press, or, to be more precise, the benefit of freedom of the press, belongs to everyone – to the citizen as well as the publisher… The crux is not the publisher’s ‘freedom to print’; it is, rather, the citizen’s ‘right to know.’ ” Arthur Sulzburger
1990 American newspaper publisher

The mainstream Media providing the most widely available information is privately owned. It is free under the first amendment to provide whatever information it chooses, even if that information is ultimately in its own best interest. It can choose, and often does, to serve the government which it was designed to censure. There is no branch of government that is not in some way indebted to one if not many major corporations. Capitalism has circumvented the Democracy that our forefathers attempted so desperately to ensure the people. We spend so much money and energy in an attempt to protect our shores from a foreign military invasion, that we have completely lost sight of the fact that there would be no need for any nation to spend money and lives attacking us when all they have to do is buy us, business by business, loan by loan, building by building. It may be a hostile takeover – but we invented them. However we look at it, we are being killed by our own poison.

Unlike the Native Americans of the past, we understand the value of union. We are in a position to take back our nation as a people and to put the rights and the freedom of the people before those of any entity be it the government, a corporation or a religious group. No organization should not have the rights of individuals, it should not under any circumstances have rights greater than those of an individual and it should never be allowed the freedom to act in any way that is contrary to the rights of each individual as defined in the constitution. The only organization granted rights in the bill of rights is the press. Not the press as a corporation but, the press as the bringers of information to the people. We can still save our country from being no more than a piece of valuable real estate, but to do this, we must remember what it meant to be an American before it was equated with being a capitalist. Capitalism is the monster that flourished from the seeds of Democracy, just as Communism was the monster that flourished from the seeds of socialism. When what is good for the whole, becomes less important than what is good for the few, the whole is destined to deteriorate regardless of the label given to the system that caused it.

We are in a bad state. And, as the one stock that most of the world’s investments are tied into, we will not go down alone. But we can change, even if the change is a slow one. Electing Barack Obama as the Democratic nominee tells the world that we are seeking change. Electing Obama President, will place us on the path of change. But only by becoming the United People of America, only by pulling in and giving back to this country and all of its people, all of its diversity, only by reinvesting our hearts into the spirit of the Constitution, can we hope to become the change that we seek. We may have financial problems, but as Americans we are rich in spirit. We have to stop this fire sale mentality that keeps the Carpetbaggers coming in. We must value ‘made in America’ above all else. Any entity that does not give more to the people of this country than it takes for itself is the meaning of un-American. This country needs every to build itself up from within, the educational system, employment, and healthcare must be repaired. It is time for those who have gained so much from this country to give as much back. We need a government that demands it, we need a government that puts the individual above all else. The whole that sees its parts as expendable will eventually expend itself. This country is being divided up and sold off. But we can stop the sale, we can reclaim what is ours, but only through union. So long as the parts are abandoning the whole, the whole has no chance. We need to come together as a nation and worry about our own soil, stop worrying about some terrorist group attacking us, we are selling ourselves off at way below cost.

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